What makes a relationship feel strong in everyday life? Feeling understood, sharing responsibilities, supporting individual growth and finding a way back after disagreement can tell different parts of the story. Look more closely at the small interactions behind your overall impression.
Take the free Relationship Quality Test: 32 original questions exploring 4 separate areas. The questionnaire and basic information are free. Your detailed personal analysis is optional.
Explore the differences behind your answers
This original questionnaire explores four separate aspects of your reported relationship experience. Enjoying time together does not automatically settle how responsibilities are shared, and a disagreement does not describe the whole partnership. The report keeps those distinctions visible without claiming to know your partner’s private thoughts or predicting your future together.
Think of an ordinary recent situation rather than the answer you believe you should give. The same overall impression can come from very different choices. Keeping the areas separate allows you to compare the parts of your profile without forcing every answer into one description.
What the 32 questions explore
Feeling heard and understood
This area explores whether ordinary conversations leave you feeling listened to, taken seriously and understood in context. It includes the response to both concerns and good news. Understanding does not require agreement on everything; the focus is whether there is room for your experience to be recognised.
Everyday partnership
This area explores how practical responsibilities and decisions are handled as shared concerns. It looks at noticing work, following through and discussing an arrangement when circumstances change. A workable partnership need not split every task equally, but it does require an arrangement you can understand and discuss.
Room to develop
This area explores whether the relationship leaves space for each person’s interests, abilities and considered goals. It concerns encouragement without pressure to become someone else, respect for individual pursuits and curiosity about change. Shared growth can coexist with different preferences and separate sources of support.
Returning after disagreement
This area explores what happens after tension or a misunderstanding. It considers acknowledging impact, making room for different accounts, respecting a pause and returning to the issue. Repair is a process reflected in subsequent actions, not simply a quick apology or the absence of visible conflict.
A report built around your responses
The detailed report follows your actual selections. Each area receives its own score and interpretation, and every saved answer remains available to review. You can compare what stands out, where your responses are more mixed and which statements explain a difference between two areas.
Reading the explanation alongside the answer review matters. Two people can reach a similar score through different responses. The questionnaire organises the experiences or positions you select; it does not supply the circumstances of your life or decide what other people think.
How to take the test
Answer about one current romantic relationship and the ordinary interactions you have experienced in recent months. Consider what usually happens rather than a single unusually good or difficult day. Choose how strongly each statement describes your experience. Read every statement separately, including those written in the opposite direction. There are 32 statements and five response options. Allow around 5-8 minutes.
Read each sentence on its own terms. Some statements point in the opposite direction, so selecting the same option automatically will not express a consistent position. If a statement feels difficult, consider one real example and choose the option closest to your usual response or view.
Free basic information and optional detailed analysis
You can complete the questionnaire and read the basic information without making a purchase. If you want to explore the detail, the optional report opens all 4 area scores, the interpretations matched to them, a complete review of your 32 answers and practical reflection prompts.
Your purchase also includes the downloadable personal report and the companion e-book The Small Choices That Build a Partnership. One optional payment unlocks this additional material. There is no recurring plan.
Understand the scoring
Each area summarises responses to its own statements on a 0-100 scale. The values do not add to 100 and do not tell you what percentage of people are like you. The explanation in the full report shows how points are calculated and how to read the descriptive ranges.
This version uses original Mind Indicator questions. Research in the bibliography provides background for the topic. Published questionnaires and their population norms have not been copied or applied to the new statements.
Questions before you begin
How long does it take?
Allow about 5-8 minutes for 32 statements. You can take the time you need to read them carefully.
Do I need to choose an identity or label first?
No. Answer the statements separately. Your report compares the areas and keeps the underlying responses visible, so an existing label does not need to decide your choices.
What makes the detailed report personal?
Your selections determine the score and interpretation in each area. The full answer review lets you follow the connection from an individual statement to the summary rather than relying only on a general description.
